A married 40-year-old man seeks employment from Rajan, sex, and relationship consultant in New Delhi.
“I’m very fond of women, but I really want to try to have sex with a man. I do not wish to be happily married,” he says.
“I have talked to men for a number of times but always stopped at the last minute. My sexual orientation confuses me. I am attracted to women and a very beautiful woman turns on me. I don’t find men attractive, but I find the idea of sex with a man very exciting and I watch a lot of gay porn.”
The man says he does not want to leave his wife. “But having sex with her is so boring. She is 42 and we only have sex twice a month. I enjoy wearing lingerie and trying out sex toys. My wife knows about it but doesn’t care because I’m not interrupting her and asking for sex.”
Rajan says:
“We do not choose our sexual orientation but that does not excuse marriage. Your experimentation does not interfere with your wife and many would envy you for that. If you ruin your life right now to have sex with a man, you might become very lonely because you don’t think men are attractive. “
