“Only about the ridiculous tradition of hurting and humiliating your friend who is about to get married.” The legacy of harmful masculinity seems to be alive and kicking in the gutters from the messages I have received.
Suggest to groups of friends who are planning parties to focus on enjoyable and fun parties. And really show how precious friendship is and how much you care about your friend who is about to get married,” Þorsteinn V. Einarsson says in a post on Karlmennskuna’s Facebook page.
He remembers when a group of his friends stopped a friend twenty years ago and thought how they could surprise him, startle him and preferably outrun him. “Scared him, made fun of him in front of a crowd and stuff in an effort to humiliate him.” But of course everything is taken care of. Or so we thought.”
Þorsteinn says that legacy lives on and he regularly receives messages from boys or their wives who are nervous about their pregnancy, nervous about what their friends will let them do, but of course don’t dare to. let their friends know or friends don’t. don’t notice it.
Asks him how perverse such a friendship is. “It’s because you’re getting married, you’re celebrating love with your loved ones, your friends are going to spend a whole day or a weekend with you, and the goal is to humiliate, outsmart, and miss respect to your needs and your will A truly insane legacy of pernicious masculinity.
Þorsteinn challenges anyone planning a wedding to break this miserable tradition and plan a day that truly reflects the warm heart and affection men have for their friend. “If he likes getting hit with paintballs and making a fool of himself, then go for it.” But he probably just wants to hang out with his friends and do something fun together. Do not allow yourself to be hurt and humiliated. Also, if you’re going to flirt, be a little more casual and quirky than dressing in women’s clothing, because feminine men are so pleasing and your harmful masculinity is so deeply shaped. by misogyny.”
Þorsteinn finally congratulates the bride and groom and says that they can have better friends than those they want to hurt and humiliate the person in question.
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